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		<description><![CDATA[Dr. Charles T. Tart, Mindfulness, Institute of Transpersonal Psychology, Lecture 4, Part 9 of 19 parts. To start class from beginning, click here. Student: I think you can bypass the mundane with anything, really. Can people do it because they’re drunk on Jesus too? Too drunk to recognize their family problems? And they do it [...]]]></description>
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<p style="margin-bottom: 0in;" align="CENTER"><span style="font-family: Comic Sans MS,cursive;">Dr. Charles T. Tart, Mindfulness, Institute of Transpersonal Psychology, </span></p>
<p style="margin-left: 1.5in; text-indent: -1.5in;" align="CENTER"><span style="font-family: Comic Sans MS,cursive;"><strong>Lecture 4, Part 9 of 19 parts. To start class from beginning, click <a href="../archives/68">here</a>.</strong></span></p>
<p style="margin-bottom: 0in;"><span style="font-family: Comic Sans MS,cursive;"><span style="color: #3366ff;">Student:	I think you can bypass the mundane with anything, really.  Can people do it because they’re drunk on Jesus too?  Too drunk to recognize their family problems?  And they do it with theory, abstracting everything away.</span></span></p>
<p style="margin-bottom: 0in;"><span style="font-family: Comic Sans MS,cursive;">CTT:	My wife and I are reading a biography of Einstein.  When things weren’t going well, he really got into his theoretical work.  I know about intellectual drunks like that.  It’s a wonderful way of getting away from the realities of the mundane world.  But of course, they’re still there waiting for you, and the people you got away from by thinking yourself away from them are now pissed off at you because you didn’t pay any attention. </span></p>
<p style="margin-bottom: 0in;"><span style="font-family: Comic Sans MS,cursive;">(Laughter)</span></p>
<p style="margin-bottom: 0in;"><span style="font-family: Comic Sans MS,cursive;"><span style="color: #3366ff;">Student:	Can you do that mindfully sometimes though?  Knowing that you’re not doing it all the time, but knowing that okay, right now I just really want to be intellectual, so I’m going to go…</span></span></p>
<p style="margin-bottom: 0in;"><span style="font-family: Comic Sans MS,cursive;">CTT:	Yes.  I think the general rule in the mindfulness tradition is not that “At every moment I must be perfectly enlightened and deal with everything in the optimal way,” but to be mindful of what you’re </span><span style="font-family: Comic Sans MS,cursive;"><em>doing</em></span><span style="font-family: Comic Sans MS,cursive;">.  And sometimes that may involve recognizing “This situation drives me absolutely bonkers and bananas and I’m going to kill somebody if I don’t distract myself for a minute!  So, damn it I’m going to concentrate on my breathing and not on what that son of a bitch over there is saying to me.  Or go watch a movie!”  Yep.  It’s not as if there’s any one behavior or internal strategy that is </span><span style="font-family: Comic Sans MS,cursive;"><em>the</em></span><span style="font-family: Comic Sans MS,cursive;"> optimal thing for all situations.  And, of course, one of the virtues of mindfulness is that you get to know yourself better.  When you do have to use a less than mindful, but effective, distraction or happiness inducing technique, you could probably use it more effectively.</span></p>
<p style="margin-bottom: 0in;"><span style="font-family: Comic Sans MS,cursive;"><span style="color: #3366ff;">Student:	Do you think they work in the long term if you don’t have any of those sort of work that you’re doing?</span></span></p>
<p style="margin-bottom: 0in;"><span style="font-family: Comic Sans MS,cursive;">CTT:	Do which work?  The –</span></p>
<p style="margin-bottom: 0in;"><span style="font-family: Comic Sans MS,cursive;"><span style="color: #3366ff;">Student:	Like psychological work, or like therapy.  I mean, say that you get really angry when people disagree with you, so I have to distract myself every single time I get angry.  But I do that knowing that I’m going to get angry if I don’t stop myself.  But do you think that works in the long term if you don’t have some other sort of practice combined?</span></span></p>
<p style="margin-bottom: 0in;"><span style="font-family: Comic Sans MS,cursive;">CTT:	No. I don’t think it does.  Well, I mean it might work in the sense that you don’t kill anybody, so you don’t go to jail, but you do get ulcers. </span></p>
<p style="margin-bottom: 0in;"><span style="font-family: Comic Sans MS,cursive;"><span style="color: #3366ff;">Student:	Yeah.</span></span></p>
<p style="margin-bottom: 0in;"><span style="font-family: Comic Sans MS,cursive;">CTT:	Or at least that used to be the fashionable theory that anger gave you ulcers.  I don't know if that’s true anymore, but there’s a level of behavioral suppression of stuff that will get you in trouble.  Even if it may be psychologically stirred up and boiling inside, that’s much better than acting out in a way that gets you into really bad trouble.  But then you want to go further and not just boil inside, but you want to get at the psychological source and begin to change it. </span></p>
<p style="margin-bottom: 0in;"><span style="font-family: Comic Sans MS,cursive;">Now the mindfulness traditions would claim that the practice of mindfulness is all you need.  No, no, I shouldn’t say </span><span style="font-family: Comic Sans MS,cursive;"><em>all</em></span><span style="font-family: Comic Sans MS,cursive;">.  It’s the </span><span style="font-family: Comic Sans MS,cursive;"><em>main</em></span><span style="font-family: Comic Sans MS,cursive;"> thing you need to eventually recognize those sources and change them.  That eventually you’ll have insights into your personality that will let you change some of the more maladaptive psychological things, but eventually you’ll have the more important insights as to who you </span><span style="font-family: Comic Sans MS,cursive;"><em>really</em></span><span style="font-family: Comic Sans MS,cursive;"> are, which will make the big change.  I don’t want to use the words “all you need” because they’ll always put this in context. </span></p>
<p style="margin-bottom: 0in;"><span style="font-family: Comic Sans MS,cursive;">Buddhism is an eight-fold path.  Meditation is one part of that, but you’ve got to have right livelihood, you know?  If you make your living making land mines designed to blow up children, you’re not creating very good karma.  And your actions toward other people have to be decent because they have consequences, which will again have psychological effects. </span></p>
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